tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post101675328151014974..comments2024-02-05T03:22:31.011-05:00Comments on Tahoma Beadworks & Photography: FriendshipJoJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18165375435543044068noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-80331392180199086152010-03-17T17:25:35.359-04:002010-03-17T17:25:35.359-04:00(((((jojo)))))
we have an expression here -"...(((((jojo)))))<br /><br />we have an expression here -"there's nowt as strange as folk" and friendships can be most strange!<br /><br />i'm glad you're friends again - he made a stupid mistake and you're the better person for forgiving him - hope brian can now find it in his heart to forgive you - oy!annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10520900940014508061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-26961663763963601312010-03-17T10:56:06.480-04:002010-03-17T10:56:06.480-04:00UPDATE: I sent him a quick message yesterday tell...UPDATE: I sent him a quick message yesterday telling him he was out of line and hurt my feelings, and I received a very heartfelt apology last night, as well as one on my FB wall, and I have forgiven him. I do believe that he is sincere when he said he never meant it that way, but in rereading what was written, he sees now what a fuck up he made. It was supposed to be a shot at Brian, not at me, but saw how easily misinterpreted it was. He didn't even realize that it was me who was angry and hurt, he thought it was just Brian who was upset.<br /><br />Brian, on the other hand, has not and now he's mad at ME b/c I forgave the guy. What can I say, I've known him (not well) since elementary school, so we're talking 35-40 years.JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18165375435543044068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-57250492200874868442010-03-17T08:07:32.478-04:002010-03-17T08:07:32.478-04:00Well, the fact that he hasn't reached by now s...Well, the fact that he hasn't reached by now speaks volumes. If he hadn't meant to be hurtful he would have immediately reached out and said something. What a jerk!Music Wenchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06004584461266777776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-38156012077366198172010-03-16T20:10:41.424-04:002010-03-16T20:10:41.424-04:00I'm not surprised you feel hurt about what tha...I'm not surprised you feel hurt about what that a**hole said...I would too.There was absolutely no call for it at all! <br /><br />I know friendships come and go because people have their own problems to deal with, and I haven't always been very good at keeping in touch with people when I've had too much going on at home, but I would still hope we could connect again somehow..and so far we have. But, in reaf life, some of them just aren't worth dealing with, especially if it is all about them all the time..friendship is a two-way street after all. Hope you resolve everything to YOUR satisfaction!Elizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03959658025489249091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-8198701436966418312010-03-16T14:14:15.526-04:002010-03-16T14:14:15.526-04:00The facebook guy is a Horribly rude, insensitive I...The facebook guy is a Horribly rude, insensitive Idiot...<br /><br />I had a very good friend (at least I thought we were good friends) who just stopped talking to me one day. She wouldn't return my phone calls, and when I did run into her again she just turned and walked the other way. To this day I still don't know what happened, but I've come to the conclusion that people like that are toxic, and it's a good thing she's not in my life anymore.Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05186511870988332347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-922532134652456172010-03-16T13:59:08.000-04:002010-03-16T13:59:08.000-04:00The exchange that took place b/t Brian and the guy...The exchange that took place b/t Brian and the guy started off as funny, good natured guy ragging.<br /><br />Brian made a comment like, 'come on [name], you never share your livestock with me". The return comment from the guy was, "that's not true, I've shared Jo with you. Uh-oh, I'm in trouble now." So he KNEW he was going to get in trouble for that comment. I was pretty devastated. I'm so sensitive about my weight and for him to compare me to livestock really devastated what little self esteem I have left. This is exactly the reason I avoided this guy in school. He's always had a big mouth and his behavior was always so erratic.<br /><br />He still hasn't commented or sent me a message on my FB page.JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18165375435543044068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-23330339737944936222010-03-16T13:18:15.833-04:002010-03-16T13:18:15.833-04:00There are some people you are definitely better of...There are some people you are definitely better off without. I too have friends who, when I see them say 'Why haven't you been in touch?!' I see, so my phone line/email only go one way huh?! ;0)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-91617017589593128682010-03-16T11:59:31.988-04:002010-03-16T11:59:31.988-04:00Where does he get off talking about you like that?...Where does he get off talking about you like that? No apology can ever repair the damage. I know, too, how the other person's behaviour upset you. I don't like getting ignored that way either.<br /><br />I stayed friends with my ex-husband for more than 20 years after our divorce. Shortly after he'd bent my ear for ages one Saturday night (when he was a little the worse for drink) about his latest new love, I phoned him with good news about my family history research. He was out and I left a message. Nothing. A couple of weeks later I did the same again. Nothing. The next message told him what he could do with his friendship. <br /><br />I actually thought he might apologise, but I never heard from him again. Good riddance to him and all the jerks who don't deserve us.valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08784717652044574470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-88582065099526630452010-03-16T07:49:14.208-04:002010-03-16T07:49:14.208-04:00Wow, what a jerk! I agree he owes you a huge apol...Wow, what a jerk! I agree he owes you a huge apology. Even then I'd feel weird about the whole thing. There's humor and then there's just rude. <br /><br />I have to admit to sometimes dropping the ball with people. I don't do it intentionally, though, and I may let months go by but I always stop by and say hello I'm alive at some point. Or call if I know them in real life. <br /><br />I don't get people just not responding, either. If I did something they didn't like, it would be nice to at least be told. Otherwise I do things like worry if they're horribly ill or something and unable to contact me. At least if I know what the problem is I can try and see if it can't be fixed. <br /><br />I hope things get resolved with your friend but considering what he said, I don't know if I'd hold my breath.Music Wenchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06004584461266777776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30172845.post-13025650989998450442010-03-15T21:16:22.253-04:002010-03-15T21:16:22.253-04:00Oh JOjo.That guy is an asshole.What a mean thing t...Oh JOjo.That guy is an asshole.What a mean thing to say!Jerk.I'm with Brian on this.<br /><br />And the other friend.Well,I know how you feel and it fucking sucks.Sucks to have people drop away for no reason and to be the one who ALWAYS makes the first move.<br /><br /> Did I mention that I have endless phone minutes?If it costs you then just tell me when to call and I will call-so we both keep our money.Dirty Soaphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02401161081617655732noreply@blogger.com